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23 Jul 2010

Fiance says she needs space
Ok, so we went through a rough patch a while ago and I vowed to change my behavior. I was bit selfish ect. So I started doing special things for her. Notes in her lunch, bought her roses, washed and combed her hair ect. All went well until she said to me today: There will be time where I don''t want you to faff over me and I need my space sometimes. Huh? It was never like that!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Maybe there was at first a time when you gave her less attention than she wanted ; and now maybe a little bit more than she wants ; and you just need to get the dose right ? maybe she wants some time to herself, as you might well want for yourself - but its important to discuss this sort of issue together and specifically.
Some people only know what they don't want, when you give it to them
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