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06 Dec 2005

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This question is posed to the men out there, I need clarification on an issue please. If you were having an affair and still having sex with your wife on a regular basis, would you stop ejaculating inside her? I know this sounds strange but the reason I ask is my husband and I have always had a very good sex life, but he is having an affair and has been for quite a while. Recently when we do make love he seems to prefer to ejaculate outside. When I ask why he says he enjoys it, but I was just wondering if it could be a psycological thing where he doesn't feel like he is doing the deed this way. Please I know it sounds ridiculous but I am just curious. Thanks
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

It doesn't sound like he's changed his mind about what's enjoyable --- maybe he wants to be extra sure you don't get pregnant, or maybe he's worried that he might be picking up HIV< and thinks ( inaccuraltely ) that this way he may be lessening the risk to you ? He is risking your health and life, for his opwn selfishness/ Does he really deserve you ?
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