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27 Jul 2005

Frustrated
I have been going out with this guy for four months, he is still healing from a broken relationship, I think this guy is interested in sex only cause the only time we see each it is about sex. I go over his place or he comes to my place, no going out on a date or just a simple fun together

He always stressed with work and fear of being hurt again. I spoke to him on Monday and he asked me to hang in there, he still loves me. I don't think he loves me I think it is all about sex to him, I don't think he is in this relationship. I have been hurt also but I don,t let that stop from moving on with my life

What do you think. Any suggestion or comments is appreciated
Thank you
AGM
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If he's still healing from a broken relationship, he's not likely to be looking for a relationship at this time. Then why are you so eagerly having sex with him ? He may enjoy that, but probably doesn't need anything more right now. You don't mention being fond of him, either. if you think you'd like a deper relationship with him, you need to discuss this all with him, and maybe suggest that he take time to himself to sort out his feelings and get over the brakeup, before you two get together and see if there is room for anything except shallow sex in this relationship
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