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30 Nov 2004

Futire&love???
i'm 21 and about to start my honours next year for two years which is great. But my boyfriend of five and a half years finshes at he end of next year and he says he wont wait for me? how can this be? i know i'd wait for him, if i was in his position but he wont do the same for me. i dont want to be with him for another year and fall possibly even more in love with him, if its certain he's going to leave. If he goes overseas i wont stay with him and he knows this yet he is still going?i dont know what to do-when i try and speak to him he jus closes up. maybe he doesnt even really love me, this is kiling me and breaking whats left of my heart-What should i do?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If he won't "wait for you" --- what, wait while you finish your degree ? How selfish and childish he is ! That is not worthy of your love. Aren't you well rid of him ? Don't let this hurt you so much --- if he is worth loving, he will be paying attention to your needs and your feelings. If he can't be bothered to be considerate, then you are better off without him.
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