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05 Jan 2005

Gay
my boyfriend of 4yrs has lots of gay friends and there were romours that he is gay when we started dating and I did not mind, but he has lots of gays friends I know 3 of them,he says he is not gay they are just friends not even best friends, I asked him today when is he planning to grt married he said he will never marry I asked him why and he said he just doesnt want to, and I started making a funny comment about some gay friend of his, and he asked me why am I asking him about the guy when he says he wont marry and I said no I'm just asking, he has 3 children. I have never suspected anything wrong with him even 2day I dont see anything gayish abouth him. but now I am worried. is he bisexual or they are really just friends or maybe was he gay? how do I get him to open up. we've talked about it before and he said he is straigt. Oh I love him so much .Plz advise
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cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If he were gay, that might be iconvenent in some ways, but it wouldn't be "something wrong with him". From what you say, I hear no reason, though, to assume that he is gay. Many very heterosexual men don't want to get married. And very few gay men have 3 children ! Surely what matters is that while he may be happy for your relationship with him to continue as it has before, he sounds like he doesn't plan to marry anyone. So is it worthwhile for you to continue in this relationship, if you want to marry >?
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