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28 Jul 2006

Getting back together
I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years as even though I still loved him very much I just wasnt in love with him. It hurt him so so so much and it still does... I was so numb when we broke up and so glad to be single that I was really insensitive and did not understand how depressed he was feeling. About 2 months ago I realised how much i love, adore and miss him. He is still very in love with me but has a girlfriend who he says he will never love as much as he loves me. Do i tell him how I feel and maybe have another relationship with him or do i leave it and maybe give him the chance to finally fall in love with someone else?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

A, I understanding this --- after 2 years, you decided that you like him a lot, but don't love him, so you broke up ? And now, having seen how much this breakup hurt him, you have decided that you adore him ? I'm inclined to agree with anon, that it sounds as though you felt more positive about him once you discovered that he had a new gf. Maybe he deserves to be left in peace with a more peaqceful; and stable relationship there ?
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