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17 Jul 2008

Getting Divorced
Hi

My wife and I have been separated for 6 months, we are very close to getting our divorce finalised, the lawyer has put the case on the roll and its should be finalised by endAugust.
We have now talked and we still miss and love eachother and want to work things out.
We have both admitted our mistakes and agreed that the problems we faced before and during our separation are still hanfing in the way and we need to address these.
She thinks we should still get divorced and stay togother and if things work out we will just get married again.
I am unsure about this and i not sure if divorcing is the best option?
We will be going for counsilling to work on our problems but is it wise to continue to divorce?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Ask your lawyer, isn't it possible to postpone the divorce hearing while you see what you may achieve in mariage counselling ? But as Me points out, both of you need to seriously review the reasons why you both decided to proceed wioth a divorce in the first place, and whether these are still valid or seem clearly to be soluble. Meanwhile, disuss this further between you, so as to at least be sure you each understand the other's position
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