I am involved with my guy for a few years now, he cheated on me a year ago and no matter how i try i can't get over that although i love him so much. i will never leave him, but i don't think we can move forward if i feel like this. So i want to make myself not love him anymore then break up with him when i am feeling stronger.. is that possible? To force myself to get over him so i can tell him to leave. Things have been good but every now and then i get filled with such rage and sadness bout the whole cheating thing. I always wonder if she was prettier than me and of course how far they went .. really? I am being silly. Things are good and I love him and he loves me and as far as i know he has been faithful.. i need help asap