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23 Dec 2004

girl wants boy
Im sure theres many of these stories out there,but anyway heres my story.
Last year i met this guy who was madly inlove with me.He phoened me constantly.The funny thing was that at that time i had a boyfriend so i never really gave this handsome boy the attention back.Then we all happened to be at a party the one night and i me and handsome ended up kissing,at this time my ex and i had broken up but were still friends,After kissing handsome i felt guilty,because i the last thing i wanted was to give him high hopes, because he really wanted to go out with me,but back then i was majorly confused.Soi started ignoring him and all his calls which kinda gave him the picture,Thing is i see him now and then and all we do is exchange hellos.But i realised that i like him so much,that i would want us to start a relationship.Somehow i have a felling that we destined to be together,and now its seems like im giving him all the attention and he gives none back because he says he ended up making a fool of himself and cant risk being foolish again.How can i get him now?The thing is im very shy and wouldnt want him to think im desperate.So males,any ideas?We both 19.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I really must be prehistoric. I can remember when love didn't involve telephones at all. Have you tried sitting down with him and talking through all this, saying twat you have said in your message here ?
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