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02 Apr 2007

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i really thought i'd be much happier after i broke up with my b/f of 4 yrs last week but instead my heart is breakin and it gets worse by the day. on saturday i was cryin bitterly the whole day. i really want to be with this guy but cant because i know he wants to be with that other girl. im now wishin he could love me more so we can be happy together. i will not get back together with him even if he begged me to, i just dont understand why i hurt so much over someone who broke my heart countless times by selfish and untruthful in our 4 years together.
im findin it very difficult to move on with my life bcos i still love him with all of my being.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

If there was any real relationship, breaking up hurts, and a week is much shorter than the usual time it takes to get over this. I understand what you may be wishing for, but you know that wishes do not, in this sort of situation, come true. Apparently he treated you really badly over years, and is unlikely to ever share your wishes. Rather see a personal counsellor to get through this and move on with a life that will ultimately be much happier without him
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