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05 Aug 2008

got sexy on mxit - feel guilty
Im married,and recently went onto mxit and enjoyed the socialising part of it. However I got close to a guy and we got into sex talk on mxit last night,it felt exciting and I found myself enjoying it, I really got into it, talking dirty etc. something thats not in my nature. I felt so guilty afterwards, I immediately deleted him from my contact list and any other chat room I had on my phone I also deleted. Im done with mxit but I feel terrible, feels like I cheated on my husband. We have marital problems and he refuses to comunicate about it so we can get through it, but this is out of character for me, I dont do stupid things like this. Whats happening to me?.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

OK, anyone can get involved in such silly behaviour without really intending to do so. You did the right thing about deleting him, etc., and maybe should delete Mxit as well. Start with some counselling for you, in which you can also plan how to better work with him to encourage him to join you in marriage counselling as an aim. And as you improve, he may recognize that he is missing something by not taking part
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