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30 Oct 2006

Had enough of his schemes
My boyfriend of 12 years has never worked more than 5 months in all this time receives monies from people say R300 per week for being part of his schemes I talked to his brother and he offered him a job to start the 1/11 now all of a sudden he has all these schemes not to go and work there another deal lurking in the back ground.... I told him this morning I am GATVOL I want him to go and work and provide for us ..his daughter with me, Do you think I should chase him away if he doesn't go and stay and work at his brother in Mpumalanga coming home weekends
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like either a dreamer, deceiving himself, or a fraud, deceiving others, but not at all a reliable source of finding while he feels his fiddles will be better than actually working at a real job. He;s sponging on you and others, and should look after hinmself, and his daughter, and leave you to independently look after yourself and your child. If he hasn't changed over 12 years, he's hardly likely to change now
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