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23 Jan 2013

Hatered towards husband

My husband has been treating me so bad, like I am just a piece of trash. I had reached a point where by I wish bad things to happen to him (which is wrong to wish a person bad thing, i pray about it always). I stopped talking to him so its just silence in the house, he never cares to ask why I am down or upset. He has abused me, insulted me and never treated me with respect. All he did was take my money and use me as a sex partner and maid. I am employed and get a good salary. I respected him for too long and gave him several chances after lying to me that he will change. Now i realise that i had bottled up all the hurt inside, all my hurt and pain and its eating me daily. All i wish for now its separation/divorce and he will never take no for an answer, he can be threatening. I am not sure which route to take. I am hurt and can''t and not prepared to be with him ever in my life. If it was possible I will erase him and don''t see him again, it’ s a living nightmare. Moreover he can be attacking and he is always right, never apologies it’ s me who must be blamed. I am tired of my marriage and can''t take it anymore. How do I move away from all this? When i want to end things he says i have an affair, which is not true.
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01 Jan 0001

So he's abusive, and treates you disrespecfully, like dirt. Consider seeing a group like POWA which exits to advicwe and help abused women, and to help you plan a safe exit and divorce.
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