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08 Aug 2008

he moved out but we&#39 re still dating?!

I' ve been dating my boyfriend for 4 yrs, we have a daughter together. We lived together for a yr, but after a huge fight last week he moved out and moved in with his family. he still wants a relationship with me and wants us to see where it goes. i feel like he shouldve stuck around so we could work it out together. If we can' t work it out together on teh same house, how will we ever have a marriage one day. He seems happier away as he can do his own thing now... he does call us everyday and comes home often, but it feels like he prefers to stay on his own. I would like to get married one day and I really love him. But I want to be a part of his life not a spectator.... it feels as if we' re moving backwards by not being partners anymore.
It hurts to watch him not sharing his life with us. I don' t want to spend the rest of my life as his girlfriend... and I g\find it so lonely without him at home. I don' t know what to do. i don' t want to lose him but I' m so scared if I agree to be his girlfriend and not his life partner anymore we will never take a step forward to eventually getting married.....
Pls help me... I' m too emotional right now to think rationally.
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01 Jan 0001

Call me old-fashioned ( and some readers will be eager to do so ) but to me, if you've had a child together, you;re already well beyond dating. Why don't you two see a relationship counsellor together and try to work things out more seriously and more successfully ?
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