My sister is going through a tough period. Her husband on 18 years confessed that he had an affair. She is brave enough to try and work on her marriage (i would have left him immediately), but she is going through a very tough time. She feels that she might cope if they both went their own way. She has tried a psycologist but this does not seem to help. Can you advise a support group / on line or telephonic which she can contact for women who have been through the same situations. Maybe even a book she could read to understand what he was thinking. She is very sexy, beautiful and supportive yet he had an affair with an ugly women that has tried breaking up previous marriages. I need to help her anyway I can - please im desperate