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31 Jul 2008

Help me fix up
During December my marriage was going thru a sexual lull, and I not thinkingly said to my wife, that if I didnt have more sex I would go and look for it elsewhere. After that things would have seems apparently well, because I understood why she was always tired, a non sleeping 3 yrs old. The problem is that she is trying to work thru this and when she starts on the subject, I tell her to forget about it and get over it because I have apologised. It would appear that she no longer trusts me fully and I seem to have broken do her own felling of self worth. I love my wife and I dont want this to end up in a divorse. What can I do to fix this to fix this.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

When the 3-year-old isn't sleeping, why dont you do your share of getting up to attend to the child ? Then you'll both be tired, and you may be less concerned about sex. You can surely understand that you gave her strong reasons not to trust you. Why not see a marriage counsellor together, and sort all this out ?
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