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18 Nov 2005

help me understand!!
recently my fiance and I were at logger heads, to the point where I decided to leave, the last two days his become so loving it's unbelievable, according to his friends when drunk he said if any one speaks or touches me he would kill them.
demanded I bite his neck something he never wanted, said i'm his wife so I'm allowed to do so.
well today is his xmas party, this morning still drunk frm last night he said he wished I could go with him to the poarty but it's not for spouse's.
well out of curiosity I called his work as I found it strange that they had a childrens party so what happened to the spouse, well I was told the spouse's were always invited .
it's now three years that his been lying to me, I called him and told him, he said I can go with if I want.
after hearing that he lied to me I don't feel like going, why would he lie, is he ashamed of being seen with me?. should I go or not. really I don't want to go as now it feels like I'm hard up to go.
he was prepared for me to stay home alone while his out having a ball, which he does each year and comes home the next morning, how can he profess to love me and then give me this treatment.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

No, if he'
s blowing hot and hold, and lying to you, why remain his fiancee ? If he says go --- go, and ignore his later empty apologies.
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