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13 Nov 2006

help - need really good advice...
guys, i need help. i don't which route to follow.

Me and my husband are married now for two years, a very rocky one. Two months ago we split up for a week and we then decided its all or nothing and got back together. The past two months was the most wonderful i ever had but...

my mother in law stays in cape town and we stay in centurion. my husband went away on a trip to cape town. before he left we had a big fight with his mom. she emailed me the nastiest stuff you will ever believe telling me how bad i am. Really getting personal and i did nothing to her to deserve this email.

We were suppose to spend christmas together but she hasn't met my family at all and i want my family there. She is flying down and i really want my parents and her to spend the christmas day together. She said to my husband that if she meets them she does, if she doesn't she doesn't. She doesn't care. All she wants is her two sons and their wifes? My sister in law doesn't have parents? Will it be unfair to say that i will be not be there if my parents can't be there. It's like saying my parents are not good enough for her?

My first question, my husband saw her over the weekend and now everything is fine with them and he is expecting me to fly down to cape town to make amends with her? this is the second time this has happened. I am so dissappointed in him because she gets away with murder and he expects me to accept that?

He treated me very badly this weekend, he stayed with her and now this morning he is all sweet and nice again.

Please give me advice on how to handle this????
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I understand that this is troubnling to you, but it's a quesion of etiquette and tactics, not really a shrink's business !
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