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04 Aug 2008

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Hi CS ,saturday night i was using my boyfriend' s phone to send my friend an sms,got tempted to read his sms and there was a lot of sms from this lady ,who based on those sms i would assume they are having an affair or maybe he wants her,so i replied to the one sms the lady sent and i said to her ::: hi my fiance has found out about us so please no more contact::: and then i immediately deleted that sms and gave my boyfriend his phone back,yesterday he received a call went outside to answer it and when he came back he was extremely cold and tense towards me ,he looked angry but obviously he was scared to confront me,i think the lady asked him about the sms ,i dont know how to react to this whole thing ,he is sooo distant i think he is confused also as the night i sent the lady an sms using his phone he had been drinking with friends,,what do i do???
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Leave aside the issue of why people cheat on their partners --- why do they keep the evidence on their cellphones ? Is it to gloar over, like a trophy ? Leave him to stew a little !
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