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12 Apr 2006

HIS WHORE!!!!!!
HI

MY BF AND I WILL BE TOGETHER 2YRS NEXT MONTH.

LAST WEEK I SAW AN UNUSUAL PIC ON MY BF'S PHONE, I VIEWED IT.....AND GOT THE SHOCK OF MY LIFE!! A SO CALLED FEMALE FRIEND HAD SENT HIM NUDE PHOTOS OF HERSELF!

I WAS/AM UPSET!!!!! I THEN PHONED HER AND SHE TOLD ME THEY WERE JST FRIENDS. SHE ALSO SAID I WAS BEING CHILDISH ABOUT IT. THEY APPARENTLY HADNT HAD CONTACT IN MONTS......AND SAID SHE DELETED HIS NUMBER. I ASKED HER IF HE SENT ANY PICS OF HIMSELF TO HER....SHE SAID YES, BUT DIDNT WANA TELL ME WHAT HE SENT HER......!!!!!!!

I ASKED ABOUT THE PHOTOS, AND SHE SAID IT WAS NONE OF MY BUSINESS! I CONFRONTED HIM, AND HE SAID NOTHING HAPPENED.

WE ARGUED AND I TOLD HIM TOO LEAVE......I THEN CALLED HER AGAIN AND CONGRADULATED HER ON GETTING WHAT SHE OBVIOUSLY WANTED.

HE THEN PHONED ME AND TOLD ME TO STOP HARRASING HER!! (AFTER SHE HAD TOLD ME SHE HAD DELETED HIS NUMBER FROM HER PHONE) I WAS HURT BY THIS, CAUSE SHE IS THE ONE WHO CAME ALONG AND MESSED UP MY LIFE, AND HE IS TELLING ME TO STAY AWAY FROM HER!! IS THIS REALLY THE MAN I KNOW!?

I LOVE HIM WITH MY LIFE!! BUT DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....

PLS ADVISE!!!! IM CURRENTLY NOT SPEAKING TO HIM.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well, she's certainly no friend, and also no lady. There's nothing childish about finding this unacceptable. Clearly she at least has been lying about this episode. However, do NOT love this man, or anyone else "with your life". After a pause for both of you to cool off, you both need to talk this over calmly. SR's summary seems useful. Prepare yourself, with counselling if necessary, to MOVE on, as you deserve very much better than this shabby treatment
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