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06 Dec 2005

how can i forgibe myself
i did a terrible thing.Had a party was extremely tipsy and me and my hubbys friend ended up kissing and fondling.The whole scenario didnt last very long about 5 miniutes and didnt lead to sex.But i feel terrible!!! Im 38 and married to a wonderfull man (2nd marriage).I cant believe that this happened i've never dont anything like that before.I cant sleep at night,i hate myself for doing it in teh first place.Take note that I dont have any feelings for this guy it's only physical and if I can help it a once off mis step.How do I forgive myself every time i look at my hubby i feel like a traitor.Please dnt judge me i need advise.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

OK, it was a very foolish thing to do, but needn;t be disasterous. Can't you discus this calmly with your husband, explaining what did and didn't happen, explaining how awfully guuilty you fel, and asking for his help and support ?
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