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05 Dec 2005

How does everything get back to normal?
Hi All,

My husband cheated on me with a prostitute and has since confessed because he couldnt live with himself. I am not trying to make excuses for him. but he feels bad and also suggested that we go to a marriage counsellor to work things out. Its been more than 2 months and I can honestly see the change in him. He only used to pay things in the house and give me money when I asked for it. But since then he has given me all rights to his salary to pay everything in the house and he asks me for money .

He didnt used to do that especially with money. I dont know if he is really and truly sorry he cheated. We have to kids. My only problem is that I cant seem to be able to make love to him anymore. Whenever we try I just keep picturing him with her and I turn cold.

WHat do you think?
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01 Jan 0001

Well, it does indeed sound as if he IS ashamed of what he did and trying hard to put things right. What more would you expect him to do, right now, to chow that he is truly sorry ? Have you taken up the offer of marriage counselling ?
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