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15 Jul 2008

How to handle sleeping together
Hi there,

Im in a dilemma, my girlfriend asked me if I have slept with someone before, and I told her I have, she is still a virgin, and now she is struggling to cope with the whole idea.
What can I do to help her get over it?
We are so much in love and Im really seeing a future for us.
How should I handle the whole situation?
I dont want to lose her for mistakes I made in my past!
I love her deeply and Im sure she loves me too!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I really think people should resist the urge to be excessively fussy about the previous relationships of their partner. See a relationship counsellor together as this specific objection probably masks a number of other problems and issues, including low self-esteem and uncertainty about relationships
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