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31 Jul 2007

hubby girlfriend threatening: wat 2 do
my husband cheateted with a lady older than him, we had fights since last year he promised to leave her which he never did, the lady called to say ugly things about me and even promised to take my hubby for good I cried to sleep and moved on with my life without them both now hubby is back apologising dat the devil was using him I must give him another chance, which I am still working on it suddenly the lady called to say she is sorry 4 what she did I must forgive my hubby she left him cos they don't belong together I was happy to hear that. last nite she called again to tell me my hubby is cheating again with another lady and she wants to take my hubby again cos I am rude to her, what must I do really I need a healthy life what to do, I asked mu hubby he denied everythin and told me the lady is is lying she wants to destroy us who to trust cos both of them are not to be trusted. I am fra.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

The devil was not involved, only your husband's foolishness and selfishness. If he wants to come back, presumably because the other lady has tossed him out, insist that first the pair of you attend marriage counselling and see whether working with the counsellor, you can decide with wisdom whether you should allow him back, and whether he has grown adult enough to handle the mariage and you properly and with due respect. Clearly the other woman's apology is meaningless, if she is threatening to resume the affair to punish you for being rude to her. It does sound as though she is being deliberately malicious, and her claim of there being another affair is suspicious. Work through this with a proper counsellor, eg through FAMSA
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