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06 Dec 2004

Hulp nodig asseblief
Ek is so deppresief, man van my drome ontmoet en hy is weg vir 'n maand. Alles het so reg gevoel vir die tydjie wat ons saam was.

Hy het nog niks vir sy boetie vertel van ons nie kan dit 'n goeie of 'n slegte ding wees? Ons is nou 3 weke saam? Ek kan nie glo ek is so depro nie. Partykeer voel dit ek kan nie sonder hierdie persoon nie - hoekom voel ek so??????

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I'm not sure, V, whether that coulds as "depressief" rather than just sad and lonely. OK, so he's away for a month --- don't you expect him to return ? How to interpret his not talking to his brother about you, who knows what that means ? It depends on his personality, his relationship with his brother, and so on. There's something too desperate and clinging, to get so upset over his temporary absence, after only knowing him for 3 weeks. That's not a healthy relationship, but sounds more like a drug dependency on a person instead of a chemical --- ever thought of some counselling to help to sort out your self-esteem and priorities ?
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