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15 Dec 2004

Husbands fantasy
My husband has this fantasy of me and another women having sex with him and with each other. I don't know what to do whether to give in to this fanatasy of his of not I am afraid that it will destroy our love and marriage if we let another women of man into our marriage. Maybe he will start to love the other women of like her more that me. Any advice please help I want to make him happy but am not sure what to do.
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01 Jan 0001

Fantasies are one thing, and reality another. No form of acting out such a fantasy would benefit anyone, and it would be highly likely to end up as hurtful and to severely damage your relationship. Good advice all round, and Poppie's ideas might be worth trying. If you had a fantasy involving high physical danger to him, or something like you leading him, naked, through the supermarket with a rope round his neck, would he be so eager to act it out for you, and accept the ridicule that would abound on him ? Consider marriage counselling to work on what leads him, not to the fantasies, but to want to act out something so inevitably destructive to your marriage
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