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24 Feb 2004

I am going crazy
My boyfriend and I split up. I borke up with him but I just can't seem to let go. I try contact him all the time. I have made sure that all his account statements come to my address. I am constantly checking who has left messages on his voice mail box. I knwo that I am pathetic and I need to move on. I have tried so hard to stay away from him and it is not like me to be this pshyco. Please can you maybe advise me on any medication that I can take to try and help me with this ugly problem I have.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

You're certainly not crazy, but you're hardly being clever, are you ? YOU chose to break up with him -- then go ahead, break up. No medication can stop you being silly, but your own determination can. Stop telling yourself that you can't help yourself, and just stop. Get him to change his voicemail password and address for accounts, and keep our nose out of his business. Get a different hobby than just checking up on him all the time, and start making a new lifem for yourself.
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