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11 Jan 2005

i cheat but i do not like it please help.
Ho Doc, i'm a married woman but i do not stay with my husband at the moment beacuse he works far from ou rhome, so recently i met a man who is also married then he proposed to me, although we both kne w our maritul status, i agreed to him, and now we've been seeing each other for six months , he is respectful and i'm very committed to my family, i lknow it's bad thing to cheat on someone you love, i also happend to love this other man, he really have care and respect what ever i say to him, if i say NO. he does listen to me. so waht's worries me is that we slept together several times and i took all my husbands pride and give it to him, i reaally want out of this before it goes out of hand, how do i tell him and do i end with him. any advice!!!!!!!!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I'm not clear quite how a married man proposes to you. Maybe it depends on what he is proposing. it sounds as though you are lonely,being separated from your husband while he's working away from home. And you know that an afair is not a good way to deal with loneliness. I agree that you want out of it before it gets out of hand, and that could happen at any time. Pumpkin makes good sense. Talk to him, explain that you were lonely and vulnerable, but that you both know that this affair is wrong, and should end before more people get hurt by it. Then just tell him that it is ended.
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