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17 Feb 2004

I feel I'm betraying him....but I'm not am I
A guy & I had a sexual relationship for the past 6 months & now he's moved away & says that he doesn't love me anymore. That's fine I've accepted that (I think!). The problem is I have had quite a few guys asking me out, but it's not them that I want to be with! I feel like a blithering idiot because why can't I find someone who will just love me for me? Just love me & accept me for who I am & what I represent.

I know that in order to receive love I need to give love, but hell, how much more love do I need to give?.... For instance, we go out a couple of times (once or twice), but then it feels like they are invading my space - all they want is sex, sex and sex & believe, once bitten & twice shy.... I'm not going to make that same mistake again!

Is everyone out there so fickle? Is there no one out there for me. I get so lonely - yes I have my circle of friends, but they all married & happy & I feel like I don't fit in with them anymore. Yes I am divorced & yes I was in this relationship.

Are there any decent guys out there?
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01 Jan 0001

Dear Charms,
Romantic Coach seems to hav done an excellent job here --- I agree
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