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19 Oct 2009

I found piece!!!
Hi doc, after years of writing here and complaining about my wife not willing to be intemite with me and lots of crying I have now found piece and have berried my sexlife with my wife. It is now over, the beging the going to extra ordenary lengths to please here. It is now gone and the piece I have after desiding to go wiith out it rather that the above. I actually feel free. Thanks for all the advice and help, God bless.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I'm pleased to hear you've found a way of feeling more peaceful. But I wonder whether this is the best way. When we are in a situation that is impossible to change, it can be wise to accept it, so that our resistance to something that won't change, doesn't become the source of all our discomfort. But if your wife refuses to be intimate, this is not normal, and she needs to see a shrink / counsellor to work on that. It is not fair for her to refuse to do so, or to refuse to see a relationship counsellor with you, because she knows that her refusal is not natural and not at all fair to you. If she flatly refuses to deal with this, maybe you should see a counsellor, to maintain your cool, but to explore the option of leaving her and making a happier life for yourself
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