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16 Apr 2006
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I found the blue prince!!! but..problem!
Well, i've found what we all look for!
This guy is really attractive (he's a model), intelligent (he's studying and wants to become a lawyer, his lowest mark is an 8!) he goes to he gym, plays tennis and knows German and Italian.
He's so so sweet! such a gentleman, really. We've been together for a month now, but i have a problem: i only see him on Saturdays!
I didn't mentioned it but i'm 16, he's 17. The problem is not that we don't want to meet more often, the real problem is that we both are so similar! we have the same "tricks": when there is no conversation we both fake we are tired, we are both a bit shy.. and so on.
So nobody makes the suggestion of: hey, would you like to go to the cinema on friday?, and these things. We both wait for the other to make the first move. We think in the same way. This is great, we connect somehow, but is also weird cause we usually make the same thing.
He is such a great boy that i have the constant feeling that he's gonna leave me.. I don't want to press him and this is why i don't ask him to go out together more often.
But as i've said we are so similar that probably he feels the same. Because he is perfect but so modest.
What can i do?
This guy is really attractive (he's a model), intelligent (he's studying and wants to become a lawyer, his lowest mark is an 8!) he goes to he gym, plays tennis and knows German and Italian.
He's so so sweet! such a gentleman, really. We've been together for a month now, but i have a problem: i only see him on Saturdays!
I didn't mentioned it but i'm 16, he's 17. The problem is not that we don't want to meet more often, the real problem is that we both are so similar! we have the same "tricks": when there is no conversation we both fake we are tired, we are both a bit shy.. and so on.
So nobody makes the suggestion of: hey, would you like to go to the cinema on friday?, and these things. We both wait for the other to make the first move. We think in the same way. This is great, we connect somehow, but is also weird cause we usually make the same thing.
He is such a great boy that i have the constant feeling that he's gonna leave me.. I don't want to press him and this is why i don't ask him to go out together more often.
But as i've said we are so similar that probably he feels the same. Because he is perfect but so modest.
What can i do?
CyberShrink
Hello ann,
He sounds like a nice guy, but blue ? Doesn't that suggest a possible heart problem ? Interesting that you describe him as perfect but modest --- and as so similar to you. Modest ?
He sounds like a nice guy, but blue ? Doesn't that suggest a possible heart problem ? Interesting that you describe him as perfect but modest --- and as so similar to you. Modest ?
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