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01 Jul 2005

I hate him
I have been living with my dad for the past 10 years and cannot move out because I would feel guilty if I left him on his own in a big house. Yet, I resent him and blame him for my mom divorcing him because he used physically abuse her. My sisters also moved out because he used to beat them up. I thought since I was the baby of the house, he will not hit me as I also take care of him, but yesterday he hit me so bad that I could not go to work. I don't know what to do and I have not told anyone about the incident. I hate him more and more each day and wish I would receive a call that he was dead. Are my feelings normal?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

he is an incorigable abuser --- leave him, and do so with a clear conscience. it's entuirely his fault if he abuses and drives away everyone who might care for him. Maybe POWA can also advise you here. Your feelings are very natural when considering someone who does such hateful things. Set yourself free, and LEAVE him. Maybe you can at first stay with your sisters.
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