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30 Nov 2005

I have decided
I am sure all of you will be glad to know that i have told the man that i want a divorce. The fist thing he did was tell his parents who called an emergency meeting and basically told us if we get a divorce they will make our live a living hell and obviously made me feel guilty for messing up my childs life. They have lots of money and think that money make the world go round and that is exactly what they said. They provide for my daughter in a big way, well they pay for her school fees which is a bit, but as i said to them i will eat bred and butter to make sure she gets what she deserves as all times.

I am being the selfish one here, but i am doing it to get my daughter out of this situation and to keep myself sane. We went home last night and tried to talk but it goes back to the same thing. He does not want me to have friends and he rants and raves and swears whenever he speaks and today i have just decided that i am not going to give this another chance, despite what they say i will manage.

What do you guys think.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Tell his parents that if they even try to cary out their threat to make your life a living hell, you'll have a court order slapped on them which will forbid them to harrass you in any way whatsoever. Money will not prevent that from happening, nor their selfishness. The divorce will not harm your daughter, but their selfish efforts to interfere, might do so. You're not being selfish at all.
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