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13 Nov 2006

I need help
I am having an affair with my boss.To me it is not really an affair, coz I am not taken - and probably never will be. But he has a wife and two kidz...The people I work with are starting to notice that we spend almost all our time together.We have braais, I take him to the hairdresser, I look after his kids when he is on holiday.....I dont know what to do anymore.I deseperetaly want to be with him all the time, and I think he feels the same way.... I think I should just tell his wife about us, so that she can leave him... And then he is all mine...... :)
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Carma, ever heard of karma ? He's using you, and if he had wanted to be "all yours" he already would have left and divorced his wife, and would already be "yours". He wants you, as they used to say in the old days, as " a little bit of fluff on the side". You seem happy to hurt his innocent wife and children, just for your own selfish pleasure ? Don't expect to find happiness that way.
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