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23 Nov 2004

inlaws - now I am fed up !!
Hi to all
What the hell is it with men and their families ??? I am married for 7 years , 2 kids , we were on the edge of a divorce because of family issues , now the problem is with his family , he can not let go of them . We are currently seeing a marraige counsellor , the main issue is the family , he does not "like" any of my family members and when ever I ask my mom to look after the kids (it only happened twice) he has got a major issue with it and tells me that the kids should rather have stayed with his sister , we are looking at a new house to buy , we sat down and made all our calculations and descided we are going ahead with the purchase , he went to his brother in law on friday and when he came back he told me that he does not think it is a good idea to buy the new house because his brother in law said so , for goodness sake , the contract is already sighned and after all who is byuing this house , myself and my hb or my hb and his brother in law ? , christmas time is around the corner , we are at home (but if his sister phoned the 24 , I can promise u that we will pack our bags and go) , so my sister phoned me and asked if they can come over (1 st time in our history) , I told my hb and he just kept quiet , and said he will think about it , oooohhh plse , when ever his with his family his whole personality changes , plse give me some advice how to handle this . I am realy fed up !!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I really think these issues need detailed discussion with your amrriage counsellor, and hesitate in interfere in that process.
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