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27 Feb 2004

Insecure,jealous and unhappy what must I do?
why cant I control my anger towards him?

I been going out with this guy 4 8yrs now this is our 9th I love this guy more than anything. The problem with me is that I am insecure and jealous. I am always angry at him, I cannot be happy when I see him. We have a 11mths old baby and we cant just for a minute stop arguing. I always accuse him on cheating on me I dont why. My boyfriend is well known 4 using girls and dumping them. And I can help but think that he is still seeing other women. He lives alone in his flat. When I go there 4 a visit I tell myself that I am going to have fun and love each other but I when he's out maybe going to buysomething I go through his things and I hate myself for doing this, because I dont trust him at all I dont why. I am even jealous of his friends bcos he spends most of the time with them. Plz tell what to do? Im always sad and depressed. I sometimes cry myself to sleep its not good!!! anonymous
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear merce,
As you know, acting so suspiciously can easily create the situation you're dreading, even if it wasn't there to start with. How about counselling to sort out your end of the problems, and in counselling you can plan in greaer detail how better to handle him ?
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