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11 Jul 2005

insecurities
Hi CS,

this is not about me and my bf, on saturday evening he got a call from his x girlfriends current boyfriend saying he should leave her alone and remove her number from his phone and delete her email and have no contact what so ever with her. Now I trust my bf and I know that they meaning a whole group of people always hang out at their office pub after work on a friday. I'm not always there and neither is she but my boyfriend asked him whether his x and this guy are back together I couldn't hear the answer but what I want to know is this guy must have like some issues for phoning my boyfriend at 11 at night to tell him this. My boyfriend just went yes yes yes all the time. I also have to say that this girl was 2 girlfriends ago and before he hooked up with me. I have met this girl and I have no problems with her. But the fact that this guy phoned and said all these demanding things and she doesn't know that he phoned my boyfriend. Does he have low self esteem ?? why would somebody do that ?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

You know, noodle, I deliberately don't watch Soap Operas in order to avoid running into relational complexities like this ! Apparently the ex's current bf has also been annoyed by some sort of contact between them. Why not just stop worrying about all,these people, and just enjoy your bf and your current friendships ?
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