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02 Mar 2004

IS HE CHEATING OR ARE THEY FRIENDS
HI, I'VE BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 8 MONTHS, EVERYTHING WAS PERFECT, THEN OUT OF THE BLUE WE STOPED HAVING SEX, AND HE STARTED PUCHING ME AWAY. THEN ABOUT A MONTH AGO I FOUND SOME OF HIS PHONE STATEMENTS AND HIS EX-GIRLFRIENDS NUMBER COME UP ATLEAST 10 TIMES A MONTH. WHEN I ASKED HIM ABOUT IT HE FLIPPED OUT. THE THING THAT BUBS ME MOST IS THAT THIS HOLE TIME HE MADE ME BELIEVE THAT HE REALLY HATED HER FOR BRAKING UP WITH HIM AND THAT HE WOULD NEVER TALK TO HER AGAIN, BUT THEN AT THE SOME TIME HIS PHONING HER. PLZ HELP!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear worried,
You deserve the truth, and he owes it to you to explain what's going on. Nobody needs to call their ex 10 times a month. You were wrong to invade his privacy, but if he insists on this point, remind him that he was not being frank and open with you, and that he had suddenly and without explanation stopped having sex and had become distant towards you --- he owes you an explanation
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