Hi,

I am a 22yr old woman who Lives in Durban and has a bf who lives in PE...We do not see each other often but we are conviced that what we both feel is love but at the back of my mind i know something is not right i feel it...I have tried breaking up with him because i believe that what we have is not a healthy relationship he does not call,when i call his always busy, he says i love you when im angry at him, even when i miss him i can not call him because i feel like he does not want to speak to me, but when his in the mood he would be nice and loving..which i think is not fair.So i have decided to just stop forcing myself on to him and break it off by not answering his calls and never calling him again..because i have spoken to him several times and he never once promised to change. Do you think this approach is going to work? i do not want to find myself depressed over someone who could careless about my feelings.