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05 Dec 2005

Is it over
My husband has had an affair on and off with the same woman for 6 years, they somehow keep on getting back together. We are now in the process of getting a divorce. He did the papers in June but stopped them and then I went last week and asked them to serve me because he keeps using it as blackmail. He seems to really want a divorce and I am so angry coz it should be me wanting it not him. Why after all the messing around that he does, do I still love and want this man. I think I am mad but I just cant let go. Please what should I do.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I wonder on what grounds HE, the unfaithful one, is seking divorce ? He certainly doesn't sound like anyone you need to have in your lofe. let him go, and be glad to be rid of him. Why not have your own lawyer serve him, promptly ? Jay seems to have the details right Make absolutely sure that you get good legal advice asap
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