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03 Apr 2006

Is there a hope
My boyfrnd went on my personal emails and find out that I have been cheating on internet with the guys from overseas. He is so mad at me and he suggested that we must be friends not lovers anymore because I have been cheating on his back.

I know he is deeply hurt.. I feel so bad. I know i'm wrong, I have hurt some1 I love so deep by flirting with the guys over internet and I thought it would be my dirty little secret and now it has ruin my life...

Do you guys think there is still a hope for this relationship or I should accept that it is over... I love him and this time I screwed up big time, big time, ,, honestly is there a hope ??
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

its a debatable matter whether being unfaithful in fantasy, over the internet, should be considered as similar to actual physical infidelity. Its also not acceptable that he go through your emails, and such snooping suggests that he was already not trusting you --- and with some reason to feel that way. We can't tell whether there is any hope for renewing the relationship --- that's up to him and you, and you'd need to have long calm discussions together, preferably witht he assistance of a relationship counsellor. to explore this possibility --- and this would only be possible if he agreed to do so, and wanted to at leas consider continuing the relationship. Otherwise, consider it over, and learn from the experience
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