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25 Nov 2005

Is what i'm going to do
Yeah, so Hubby is gone this morning, and though i feel a tad sad, teary, my body just urging for a ciggy & i must fight, fight, fight, i am coping.
I tried very hard to not show him how it really upsets me, but think he knows anyway. Cuz last night he suggested that i go for therapy for a while. I asked him why he thinks that, he said "will be good for you" Guess he realized this last week ive just been going backwards....so it feels anyway.
So i made an appointment for monday morning.

Last nite we watched "I am Sam" he never saw it before & i told him he has to watch it, cuz it makes me cry everytime.
He watched it, and at the end, i look, and then the tears...cuz its what the movie does.

I said to him that Sam is so special, a really beautiful person.

Then My husband asked me why I love him, and I said" Cuz you are Sam"

His name is really Sam.

I miss my Sammy



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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Pleased to hear how well you're managing, Delene, and the appointment on Monday is a wise precaution, anyway. yes, Sam is a film more people should watch. Did anyone else see the nice British film on DSTV this month, about the little Jewish boy who's mad about cricket, and learns from the West Indian family who move in next door ? Insightful on kids, prejudices and racism, and just a very well-made story
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