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02 Apr 2007

It hurts more than i expected!!!
Hi!!! not too long ago, i asked for advice on my 'frends with benefits' issue. I spent the entire weekend with my friend, it was lovely, we had so much fun together, he was caring and sweet. But.... it was all ruined when his ex called,actually yesterday she called several times! I was only able to hear one conversation. They had a sweet conversation while i sat there and listened. It hurt so much, i barely managed to keep it together but we not exactly in a relationship so i really dont have a right to complain or be hurt. But im human... i've fallen for this man... and im hurting. Do i carry on see'ing him??? Or do i cut my losses and walk away??? Am i over reacting ??? Please guy's, i really need your advice!!!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

SOunds like part of the problem is that the actual nature of your relationship with him is unclear and ambiguous. Have you discussed with him what is ( or isn't ) happening, and how you feel about his continuing relationship with his Ex ?
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