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03 Aug 2007

it's a thin line between love and hate
My boyfriend accused me of cheating after reading my message (sms) that came from a lady friend of mine! all it said was: i am so grateful to have you in my life. He somehow thought that it was from a man although he knows my friend very well, i had to call her during the night, to actually confirm that the message was genuinely from her - this got me upset - i have never done anything for him to be suspicious of me! I have bought a brand new car and ever since, things are under a microscope.

Since then I have no desire to make love to him and when I do, i can't stand kissing him - his saliva feels sticky - i think it's all in my head! what should i do - i am so frustrated from all this, please help
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01 Jan 0001

Some people behave in a manner that practically forces others to be suspicious of them ; some people are so inherently suspicious, based on their personal sense of insecurity, that they suspect you even in the most innocent of situations. I wonder why on earth the new car rendered him so sucpicious ? Is he fearful simply because you are now more mobile ? How about sugegsting a few sessions or relationship counselling ?
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