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22 Jan 2004

Jurlitzen
I am sorry about your loss and I think that you are very brave and mature in your reasoning.
I think there are people out there who can be labelled as being 'predators'. They find good people and then suck all that they can out of them until a new 'host' comes along.
I have tried to understand but it is beyond my comprehension how someone can live such a life of constant lies! I mean, it must be exhausting!
Good luck girl, what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

,,,,, Mona --- in my years of studying liars, that's one of the main conclusons I reached ! To remember exactly WHICH lie you told to which person, and to try to make sure that reality somehow matches your different lies --- I'm pleased that I'm not clever enough to be good at that. Often, a serious liar first of all lies to themselves, and convinces themselves that their lie is the truth, thus largely forgetting the truth and reducing this burden on the memory.
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