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25 Jul 2008

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Hi CS i just want to be clear on something,my boyfriend is very close with his friends ,sometimes I think i am a bit paranoid but i need advise on how often should a 28 yr old man visit his friends,sometimes he spends the whole weekend with them and i must be left alone or go visit my family even if i would prefer we spend the weekend together,we have a child together ,i really think we could be bonding with our child since he stays with my mom fulltime ,but my boyfriend would rather be with friends(especially after he got paid when he has money )i think this is childish or am i too clingy,i need advice .Thanks
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

There are no rules about such things. A man with a child ought not, on the whople, to be spending more time with his pals than with his child. And the child should have first claim on his money, rather than booze or friends. This is a guy who should recognize his responsibilities, who is insisting on behaving as a boy and not a man.
A boy can make someone pregnant ; it takes a man to be father to a child and spouse to a woman
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