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10 Dec 2004

lesson learned 2004
hi there

always at the end of the year i take stock of the past year
me and the girls will gave a nice relaxing supper and talk about these things

how about you sharing some of the important "tests" you've past the last year?

i think the most important lesson i've learn was to "let go" i know it sounds easy but to me it was quite a big thing
i had to let go of my hopes that my ex will change and as a result of that i had to let go of the life long dream of "living happily ever after"
another thing i've learned is that it's all about relasionships, not just with a partner but all the resionships around you
one thing i regret was picking up some weight, i really feel dissapoited in myself
i'm also very happy that i have my kids and that they are ok
i'm also blessed to have my mom as my best friend

just looking back at the year it was a good year

share some of the stuff....

nina
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well done, lady nina. Yes, letting go is simple but difficult. like so many really important skills. Maybe the dream you needed to relinquish was of "living happily ever after---WITH HIM", and you're now free to live happily ever after in other ways. And the slight weight-gain, instead of seeing it as a failure this year, view it instead as an incomplete task, to be achieved next year. Have a great supper
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