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11 Apr 2006

Lewe Leeg!
Hi Doc
raar ma waar, Ouers was baie eng, en nie oor seks gepraat nie ek was in st 10 toe ek v d 1ste keer omgang gehad het, en ook swanger geword het, ouers het my weggejaag uit huis, & aangedring ons moet trou, na 11jr is ons geskei, 2 pragtige seuns uit huwelik, ek het seuns alleen groot gemaak v 12jr, ons het by tye baie swaar gekry, ek het verder gestudeer, graad gekry, baie goeie werk so 5jr terug gekry, seuns nou n jaar uit huis, in al die tyd nie weer n vaste verhouding gehad nie, ek is nou 43jr en bevoorreg om nogals aantreklik te wees,wat is fout met my?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

A rather common situation, Sue ! Isn't it sad that so many parents seem to think that they're protecting their kids from something by never talking about sex, when its often the kids who know less about sex, that go in for hazardous experinmentation, and who get pregnant at the wrong time. And then they blame you, for the result of their own insistence on not allowing you to know what it was all about. Ech ! Under very difficult circumstances, you have done very well and deserve congratulations for all you have achieved. If there's something wrong with you, I rather wish the same thing was wrong with an awful lot of other people !
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