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21 Aug 2007

Lies, lies, and more lies ...........
I recently got dumped by a woman. Why? I still have no idea. The reasons keep changing on a daily basis and I realised recently how much she lied to me and to people areound us. We were in love with each other and when she broke it off, she told somone close to us that it was just a "fling". This hurt me initially as well as all of the other nasty things she said. All of this makes me wonder what type of person she really is. I never did anything to hurt her nor did I ever tell her to get out of my life. We had an amazing relationship until she decided enough was enough. I respect that and I accept that this is what she wants. But why must she lie about everything. Why tell me such nasty things and why become something that I know is not her. She has forced me to walk away, reluctantly I may add. Each day seems to get better and I am starting to see things a lot clearer. I know in my heart that it is only a matter of time before she realises what she has lost. Will it be too late, I dont know. What I do know is that it is not fair to lie to people and to play with someone's feelings. What goes around comes around...
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well, V, from the sound of it, you are well rid of her, and have iscovered that she was not at all what she semed to be. She sounds as though she was a hurtful person arising from her personality and behaviour, rather than that this was something specifically about you. If she lies, then you really don't know who she is. Don't take her back, she has revealed herself and her habits. Move on, learn from the experience, so as to be ebetter able to avoid such a situation in the future
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