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23 Aug 2007

life vs sex
I actually don’t know what to do re my b/f anymore. We have been going out for 8 months now and always have a great time together whether on our own or with friends. However, this means nothing to him if he does not get sex often enough. No matter if I have to leave at 12h00 at night, just so that he can be satisfied. It seems like I have to fit into his schedule and if I don’t, well then, I get the huff treatment!! Last night we had such a good time. We hosted a dinner party at his house and our friends only left at 11. He then wanted me to stay so that he could get ‘satisfied’ and then for me to go home. I go to gym in the mornings and get up at 5. Besides putting my routine out, I would have to risk driving home so late at night. He is cool, because he can just roll over and go to sleep!!
Another issue, but sort of the same theme, is that he is now complaining about my running and that I have to race on Sundays and the races start at 8 in the morning. He is upset because this is the time when we can have sex. However, I never see him on a Saturday because he arranges breakfast and lunches with his guy friends. He has been doing this before I met him and it doesn’t worry me in the least because I know he enjoys it. So why does he complain about my running when he knows that I enjoy it??
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01 Jan 0001

And what does he do to meet YOUR needs and pleasures, or to fit YOUR schedule ? He sounds wholly selfish and self-centred --- is he really the guy for someone as sensible and independent as you ?
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